This is a MODERATED forum.. MODERATION.. MOD-ER-ATE.. It's not censorship, and I think it's rude to publicly question the qualifications of the MODERATORS. They are doing exactly what the unpaid 'job' entails and are no less committed because they have not suffered the same tragedy as the LBP's. If anything it makes them MORE qualified to MODERATE, because they are MODERATE.
GET IT? GOOD!
I also feel that the moderators here do an amazing job, often in a difficult position for which they are not paid.
One could also say, there is a bit of irony, with regard to the person whose quote you see above, lecturing others regarding "rude behavior."

The unbearable stress and heartache that a LBP lives with for months and years at a time might understandably result in what others consider poor manners. One might also consider that the language you often see here , when people are frustrated, would not always be considered, diplomatic by those who viewed it without knowing the stress, this issue engenders.