I'm so sorry to hear that Justice, but you've come to the right place. I was just reading Carlos' post on where the State Dept failed him in relation to time sensitive instructions. If you've looked around the site, you may not get the most important information early enough.
Click on the profile of those members listed under "other abductions" and you will find a wealth of information. I'm sure any or all of them would be happy to steer you away from the edge of the cliff and warn you of the pitfalls they fell victim to. I hope as David is successful in getting Sean home, you child will also be returned.